Escort Service

Jayke's team was selected to help the Ball State women's team today by escorting them during introductions.  He was really looking forward to this until we got to the field and I explained what he was going to have to do.  When I told him he would have to hold hands with the college girls he had a look of sheer horror on his face.  He didn't back out like I expected though.  As you can see from the picture above he wasn't exactly comfortable out there!  

It's been a while.  I had to make this blog private for a period of time...lots of factors went into that decision.  I didn't know if I would return to it but over the past few weeks I was inspired by Facebook, of all things, to get back to blogging.  Mainly so that I have a printable record of Jayke's life that I can share with him now and when he is older.  Something he can share with his children some day.  

It is a difficult task to catch up two years worth of blog posts.  Obviously I can't document everything.  There were some points where I didn't use any social media of any kind so I didn't have anything to remind me of what was going on during that time.  I've tried to go through all of my pictures and Facebook posts starting on December 21, 2013 until today to post as much as I could of what we have been up to over the past 24 months.  There are gaps.  Some posts are just a picture dump but others that were more memorable to me have a little explanation.  After much urging from my mom, I'm opening it back up to anyone who is still interested in what my witty child has been up to. (Basically,  his grandmother and aunts, but that's okay.  I write this for him and no one else)

I will try to do better at documenting his funny words, creative works of art, achievements in sports,  his growth in size and maturity and everything else in his world.  He is special and that needs to be shared and remembered!

Challenge Accepted!

Challenge accepted and issued.  Love the girly scream at the end...and Jack almost falling off the pier.

Licensed in Six States!

Jayke spent the evening at Bob's tonight while Jeff and I went out to eat.  Halfway through dinner I got a text from Bob that just said "The corn on the cob is going to do it".  I had to stop and think for a minute but then remembered Jayke has a loose tooth that he has been trying NOT to lose most of the summer.  He was afraid of how funny he would look with only the two in the middle since the one he lost last May STILL hasn't made an appearance.  

Shortly after the text, I got the picture above sent to me.  Bob was quite proud of himself.  He informed me he is a licensed dentist in six states!  Jayke says, "Just don't ask him which states!"  

when I showed up to pick him up there were some tall tales told that involved pliers and three people needing to hold him down.  When I finally got the truth out of the tale teller I learned that Jayke actually pulled this tooth.  He has never pulled one.  He chooses to just wait until they fall out of his head all on their own.  Bob taught him the easy way to do it and since I wasn't there, Jayke felt the pressure, hanging out with the "fellas", to not wimp out and get that thing pulled.  Bob did tell me there was a brief moment when he thought he might lose it and there was a bit of chin quivering but in the end The Boy got it done!

The new tooth is already poking through, thank goodness.  I'm hoping to not have to live with this look for long.  The tooth on the other side is a different story.  I have called the dentist to see if they saw a tooth up there last time he was there.  They did.  Whether it is going to come down is another story. I learned while speaking to the dentist that if it doesn't come down they will have to pull it down using braces.  They would go in and cut a hole in the roof of his mouth to find the tooth, put a bracket on it, then put braces on the rest of his teeth to be able to pull that tooth out using the braces.  This...does not sound pleasant.  I am PRAYING this does not have to happen.  Jayke can't even pull his own teeth!  If I tell him they are going to cut a hole in the roof of his mouth all hell is going to break loose!  For now, we wait.

Pike Fest Tournament

This is what a victory looks like....big smile!  We were in Indy for our first tournament of the season today.  The new team's first attempt at bringing home some hardware for the club.  Day one started with a down pour.  The kids were soaked before the game even started.  Luckily the rain let up shortly after the game began and the kids were able to get a tie.  We ended up winning game two, coming from behind.  Not a bad start to the tournament. 

In between games we had some time to kill so Jayke, Jeff, and I ran to Target to get a gift for the birthday party Jayke was invited to after the game and to TGI Friday's for lunch.  this wagon was outside the restaurant and I never pass up a photo op.  The Boy was willing to climb up which surprised me since he isn't very cooperative with my photo taking these days.

Since we got so wet during the game I had to try to dry the jersey.  This may be the world's most expensive dryer at $3.35 a gallon!  Luckily we had a spare jersey so I didn't run the "dryer" very long once I saw that this much heavier jersey wasn't going to dry in time.  

After the games we went to Cracker Barrel to celebrate Carley's birthday.  I think all but two of the players came.  The picture was taken after a couple had left but we got most of them.  Even the coaches came.  They had to get a table for 36 which the Cracker Barrel staff was none too thrilled about.  It was a really long day but fun.  Now we get to get up and do it again tomorrow!  Hopefully with the same outcome as today ended with!

Day two of the tournament didn't go as well for our team.  We lost 4-1 to a team we beat and tied last season in our two meetings.  I think everyone was shocked.  It was a really quiet sideline.  I guess the team may have more work to do than what we thought.  I'm betting practice won't be much fun on Tuesday.

Diet Coke has Gotten Bossy

Can't find my name but I found this one :)

A New Season, A New Team...

This year is the first year that Jayke and all the kids who he has played soccer with for the past several years had to try out for the soccer team.  I have been talking to The Boy about this for a long time trying to express how important it is for him to do his best so that he will be chosen to be on this team.  Try outs were at the end of last season but we didn't find out for several weeks if they made the team or not.  

Originally we were told that kids who didn't make the team would be cut.  This was worrisome to me because I wasn't sure if that would mean that he just wouldn't get to play anymore if he didn't make this team or if there would be another option.  I was finally told at tryouts that they had enough kids to make two teams and they would be divided between an "A" and a "B" team.  Now all he had to do was be chosen for the "A" team.

Finally, an email came welcoming Jayke to his team.  It didn't say anything about who was on his team or which team he made.  I text Tony, a friend who happens to also be the Director of Travel, and was given a list of who was on Jayke's team.  I quickly read the list and was elated to realize that he was on the "A" team!  What a relief!  All those years of playing soccer were in preparation for THIS!  

I've learned since starting practice that the club has high expectations for this team.  They have chosen the top players to form a team that they feel has a good chance to win divisions and continue to do so in the years to come.  This is the only team they currently have that they feel will be able to go forward together with this opportunity to succeed.  They have entered them in an additional out-of-state tournament that ONLY this team from our club will be playing in.  I just hope they haven't put too many expectations on them.  We haven't ever played with this combination of players on the field together.  Basically, it is an all-star team, there are a lot of kids on this team who are used to being the star and they will all have to learn to play together, giving up some of that to be a winning team.   They are all good kids and have been playing together, whether in practice or on a team, for years.  I hope they can come together to meet the expectations the club has for them.  Our first test was today, when they scheduled a friendly with an Indianapolis team.  We won, and we looked pretty good for as much rust as the kids have after having the summer off. 

                                            

Jayke is not a starter but I think if he continues to play as well as he did today he may be able to start some games.  He needs to keep being aggressive and develop more power and speed.  His accuracy in his passing and being able to keep his head up and see the field are his strong points so I think he will continue to grow and hopefully earn a starting spot for some games.  If not, he will still be an important part of the team and help them to succeed.

Cheap Entertainment

What we do when we are bored...walk around Meijer.  The kids find their own way to entertain themselves.

No Words

For what I witnessed in the drive way tonight.  Boy was gettin it!   Not sure what he was gettin but it was SOMETHING!

More Choices

The first day of 5th grade brings more choices for The Boy.  Carrying over from his week at camp he was all about making his own choices for the first day of school, choosing his clothes himself and getting himself ready.  The shirt reads, "Nothing but Awesome"...I did go make sure his Awesomeness had on matching shoes since last year's choices had him wearing two different ones on the first day of school, which you can see here.   

After the inspection of the footwear and a quick picture he was off to first day of his final year of elementary school.  Where did the time go?  I feel like in the blink of an eye he will be off to his graduation but it was just yesterday he was waking up in his footed pajamas saying "Go fix me a waffle woman!"  I'm a lucky mom to have such a great kid!  

Us

I love this picture of us

Still Got It!

Like you had any doubt...

For my mom's client.  I told her I don't know if it is what she wanted but if it isn't, it is NOW cause no one does this better than I do!  At least no one does it as well at my fee...  What a waste of talent! ;)

Anything With a Goal

You are a little big for that thing, kid...

Still Smiling...and Still Speaking to Each Other

Camp was a success!  When we got there to pick them up they were all three patiently waiting in their room for us.  They were happy to see us and tell us all about their week!  They are big on letting the kids make their own choices while on their own at camp for a week.  Some of the choices they were eager to tell me Jayke made were eating only potatoes all week, trying to lock Zach in the closet using bandaids, and sleeping in the closet on top of his suitcase.  They played lots and lots of basketball.  Got to play miniature golf and be total goof balls in their dorm room at night with no parents around to tell them what to do. Got to go to a buffet 3 times a day and eat whatever they chose without parents to tell them what to eat.  Well, no parents, just Seth.

They can't wait to go back next year!!

After we got them loaded up we went down to the gym for an exhibition by the kids and by some performers who were there to entertain the kids.  

                                       

After the exhibition we raced over to Ivanhoe's to try to beat the camp crowd.  Jeff nor the boys had ever been there before.  Jayke, on the other hand, is a regular with Oma.  She takes him up there all the time!  I don't recall EVER being taken there as a kid, in fact, I didn't even know what it was until I was an adult but she takes Jayke several times a year!  

It was a long long wait but the food and ice cream were worth it!  On the drive home we drove over the covered bridge so the boys could see it, I'm sure Jayke is a regular there too...smh.

Shipping Them Off...for a Week!!!

Heading to camp!  Thank God Jeff has a van or we wouldn't all fit.  We all fit in my car as long as we don't take anything but with all this stuff we have to take, we need his much bigger van.  

The boys are all signed up to go to basketball camp for a week at Taylor University.  They will all three be sharing a room so this could be interesting.  This will be Jayke's first time away from home, other than staying with family.  He was signed up to go last year but we backed out at the last minute because he wasn't ready.  This year, with Seth and Zach going to be there made it much easier.  When I was getting him unpacked he said, "I've never been left somewhere with so much stuff!  I can't believe you are letting me be responsible for all of this!"  Neither, can I.

Jayke is bunking on top.  They lucked out with the weather this week, it is supposed to be nice and cool.  The dorms are not air conditioned so it can be really hot especially after playing basketball all day outside in the heat.  We brought 3 fans but I don't think they will need them much.

"Dorm Dorks"  That is what Zach wanted me to name this picture.

After we got them unpacked we decided to take off but not quick enough, Jayke got all teared up as he hugged me goodbye.  I'm sure it didn't last long but for a split second I thought he was going to change his mind about staying.  I got out of there as quickly as I could.  I'm sure they will have a lot of fun and not even miss us!

Photobombed

Another Swim Day

On our way to swim at Dad's house again!  One stayed home and one is hiding and pouting in the back seat.  At least half of them are happy though!

Georgia and Hilton Head, SC

I asked Mike to send a few photos of Jayke on his trip to the beach with him.  They had a place near Hilton Head, South Carolina for a few days.  I don't have any details about this trip other than Jayke had a LOT of fun swimming in the ocean, jumping waves, and riding the boogie board. Oh, and they went to a lighthouse but the beach where they stayed wasn't any good, too many rocks.  I'm assuming this is it in the picture below. I'm glad he had fun because I was a nervous wreck about him being in the ocean!

He text me the morning they were going and I was bombarding him with warnings and instructions.  I don't even like Jayke to swim in a lake let alone the Atlantic freaking Ocean!!!  I was simultaneously texting his father giving him warnings and instructions as well.  (I'm sure he LOVED this, but I don't care)

Not sure where the picture below was taken...something historical I assume.  I don't think Jayke remembered when I asked him.

Opa met Mike outside of Atlanta to pick Jayke up and bring him home.  He was down visiting his mom and sister.  He has done this in the past to help Mike out and Jayke likes it too.  On the way back to Aunt Jennifer's house they stopped and climbed Stone Mountain...or I guess they rode the Gondola up and ran down.  Opa took a picture and sent it to me up Jayke at the top.

Below are some images of the mountain I stole from Google.

He had a great trip but was really glad to get back home to his cat, his xbox, his couch, his toilet, his fridge, his basketball goal, his Oma and, I suppose, even his mom.  He left the next night to stay with a friend.  (shaking my head)

 

Pacer's Camp!

We put all three boys in the Pacer's Basketball Camp at the YMCA.  Jayke really liked this camp, he thinks most camps are boring because they are usually below his skill level but this one challenged him and was a much better camp than most.  Oma took him and picked him up every day and she took this picture for me on the last day.  Next up, ten days with his dad in Georgia.  He doesn't want to go but I think once he gets there he will have fun, he usually does.

Laid Back Fourth

We had a very laid back fourth, laying around the pool at Kathy Pickering's house.  Jeff, the boys, and I all went over for the afternoon.  The kids were able to play basketball, swim, play corn hole, baseball, and there was lots to eat! I tried a new dip, Jalepeno Popper , which was a hit and also my pasta salad, a concoction of my own that everyone seems to love too. (My coworkers request the pasta salad on carry in days)   People are always shocked when I make something which is funny to me.  I'm actually a good cook, I just HATE it so I ACT like I can't cook.  I need to start doing it more often but then I wouldn't get to enjoy the shock and awe from my friends when I do!  LOL

After the party at KP's house we all met downtown to watch the fireworks and then went over to Angi's to play some cards.  Even though this wasn't our original idea for the fourth (Ang and I wanted to have a party at Bob's and he told us NO! GASP!!) it turned out to be pretty good.

Jayke and Zach played cornhole behind the Muncie Central Fieldhouse while we waited for it to get dark.  Friends, Tim and Nikki, introduced us to a prime spot for watching fireworks.  We will have to remember it for next year!

Why do They Hate Him So?

Got a weird text from Mom this afternoon that I wasn't able to decipher at first.  It said something about Jayke and a wasp but her texting skills leave a lot to be desired.  Much of the time it's like trying to figure out the Da Vinci code so I finally gave up and just called Jayke.  He was crying and told me he had been stung twice by a wasp.  I immediately went into my calming, "it's no big deal, it will only hurt for a short time, you've been stung before" speech (not sure if it is calming him or me...but I do it anyway).  I get him all settled down and Mom walks in the door.  Game over, or I should say, game on.  The crying and theatrics begin all over and are ramped up to "GRANDMA" level.  I hang up.  I can't deal with that mess especially while at work.

I decided to check the situation out about 45 minutes later and call Mom this time.  She answers sounding all exasperated (I would imagine she is the way she lets him carry on) and tells me that they have tried putting everything they could think of on the stings and NOW he is soaking in the bathtub.  (CRICKETS)  Um...why on earth does a bee sting on the THUMB require a full body soak in the bathtub???  She said it was to calm him.  I think sometimes she gets confused on if we are raising a boy or a weenie here.  I also think the bathtub idea was to get him away from her so that she could calm herself!  Again, I'm at work, I can't listen to this.  I hang up.

I leave from work wondering what kind of dramatics I'm going to be walking into when I get home.  Luckily, mom was gone.  That was the first good news (just because he tends to be more of a drama queen around her), the second good news was that he was NOT crying, however, as soon as he saw me that chin started to quiver.  I immediately told him he was fine and walked into the other room.  I refuse to baby him and allow him to go into his theatrics a second time.  Sure enough, about 15 minutes after I get home he is going back out to play basketball again.

A short time after Jayke is outside Mom sends me yet another of her creative texts to ask if he is okay.  Just as I write her back telling her he is fine, he runs in the door holding his forehead and crying.  ANOTHER wasp sting!!  What on earth is this child doing to these angry wasps?  Why do they hate him so? Mom didn't even believe me when I told her he'd been stung again.  I don't blame her.   Jeff was here and headed outside to check things out.  He had a thought that maybe they had a nest in his basketball goal and the ball bouncing off the backboard was ticking them off.  They fly out and see Jayke bouncing a ball, making noise,and torpedo his head!  

We didn't see anything but just to be on the safe side we go buy some spray and soak the inside of the pole by spraying it in the holes on the sides.  We didn't have anymore problems the rest of the evening.  I think the feisty little buggers were just laying low though because they got him again the next day.  This time, Oma, took no chances and put duct tape over every hole on that pole! 

Two days and four stings later...the court is open again.

Old, Grey, Smelly, Toothless, Arthritic, Half Blind, Half Deaf

But still loving life!  The Seniors are becoming more and more work for me but other than a few minor age-related deteriorations they are as good as ever! Every now and then they take off through the house or yard like they have forgotten how ancient they are.  They are terrible watch dogs now, in fact, they have no clue if someone comes in the house at all.  They sometimes forget they are supposed to go OUTSIDE to go to the bathroom (good thing I got rid of the carpet), and they smell like they died 3 months ago but they are just fine! (I'm the only one suffering)   I'm guessing if anyone saw them in person they would report me for starving them they are so skinny but they eat whenever they want.  Sucks getting old but I'm starting to wonder if they are going to live forever???  Happy 16th birthday this month, Doggies!!  I'd give you a special treat but I don't think you have enough teeth left to chew it!